My Sitch/any better ideas than going dark?

[Yasu]

The days will pass and your email transgression will become history. Research detachment asap. It is not so easy. What gives you the advantage in detachment is detachment itself - literally. Do not see her, do not look at her, do not talk to her, remove anything that reminds you of her. Do not be in any vicinity of her, period. This is the key to detachment. In a few months, you will feel somewhat stronger, but don't kid yourself. You are only detached - that does not mean you do not care or love her, tread carefully. I am coming to know this path, as I am on it, as we speak. I so wish I was computer savvy to give you links, Mr. Broken. So sorry I am an idiot on that level. My prayer is also for you, and I hope you will join my newcomer's team. I will keep my eye on YOU. Yas