Thanks for the great reply, it makes alot of sense.
I have just had a pleaasnt meeting with W, first hug and kiss on the cheek for a long time and got the ILYBNILWY sppech as per four years ago. (First bomb and ILYBNILWY in January 08).
W is discussing stuff from her childhood, teenage years with my son that she refuses to discuss with me and apparently opening up like never before. Heavy burden for an 18 year old but he is the nicest person I have ever had contact with, bar none. Very very proud of him.
