Did you ever wonder... that maybe he doesn't remember things is because... you've got his back...?
Any thoughts on how to encourage and support him in managing his own calendar?
I mean... you seem to enjoy it...
My W's like that, BTW. And she complains that she has to make the calendar and keep reminding me, because I won't do it...
And I sit there thinkin'... Yeah, but I don't have to because whether I want to do something or not, she puts my schedule on the calendar and then tells me I'm committed... I don't even have a choice... and then complains when I complain, saying I never want to do anything unless it's convenient for me...