Just curious, when your H moved back and your started to R, did you go to MC? In retrospect, what worked and what didn't?
Btw, your calendar system is awesome! It's nice that the kids are fully on board with it, too!
Thanks for such nice words!!!
MC is a touchy subject. To save you from digging through my threads, here's the readers digest version. I kicked him out, found an IC. Went every week. Asked H to join me. He said no. I kept going, Asked H to join me. He said no. I said- screw it. fine. I kept going. H found another C. Went once. Asked me to go. I talked it over with my IC and here. I went to his. H went.... separately to the same person. This C thought it was nuts, me too, but if H was game we continued. I went again. H went. I went, H never went back. I stopped.
See his control issue??? Ya. It's glaringly obvious when you remove yourself and look back.
