Thanks for the information. I appreciate it. Do you feel that her close proximity for convenience sake is helping or hurting your sitch? I know my husband is struggling. He is living in a friends basement and his friend has a wife and 4 kids. I know he is uncomfortable there, but he does not want to come back home, even for convenience.
Mr. Bond, yes, we went to a christian counselor last week. He really did it for me and just to say he did it. The counselor (who was a minister) pretty much told us that how we got together had no impact on the issues in our marriage. During the session he appeared to understand and agree with what the minister was saying but he didn't change his actions at all. I'm so frustrated!
Me- 43 H- 45 Married - 3 yrs Together (off and on) 9 yrs No kids Bomb- 9/2011 Separated - 2/1/12 Filed for Divorce - 2/10/12