I must apologize, I'm on my phone so I can't post much right now, but my W moved back in for convenience. There's more info about it in my thread. Personally, I think the spiritually argument. Is just an easy excuse,though there's literally no way to argue with they're insistence that it comes from a higher power/purpose. My advice for now would be to ignore that and see if there are any reasons given that you are able to influence, like past behavior s.not much other insight I can give for now. Find the 37 points and start following those as much as you can, given your own sitch. I'll post more later if you have any other questions.
Me: 31 W: 28 M: almost 6 T: 10.5 S2 Bomb#1: 05/11 Bomb#2: 11/11 S'd: 11/28/11 Moved back in: 12/28/11 MC: 06/28/12