Thanks for taking the time to read my sitch and the kind words Yas. :-)
I am glad the letter helped you out. Retrospectively I wish I hadn't sent that email and done a number of other things, hopefully she files it and can reference it if and when she ever thinks about "us". I hold no expectations though, although she won't use the divorce word really, I am mentally preparing for that to be the outcome in August, and if things improve then so be it. Each day I care a little bit less, hopefully I will hit the total indifference point soon.
It sounds like you are doing a great job on detaching, hopefully I can take some lessons from you. Keep your chin and relax, you are your sitch are in my prayers. :-)
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!