sox - yes we did have the financial talk. some things are still being worked out but, i am taking it at my pace and H is ok with that. your list was a lifesaver! as for valentine's.. yes! i think it will be great to surprise them! i'll have to do 3 gifts though because my niece will be here since i'm working and my mom will be watching the kids! no biggie.. love my niece too!!!
purg - i don't know.. i think it might be nice to give your boys origami roses. you can start a new tradition and give them one every year and turn that memory into something new and positive. when they get older, they will probably do the same thing for their loved ones even if money isn't tight.
as for vegas.. oh yes!! would be so much more fun w/ a local!!!!
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11