Together since we were 15...Part 3

[purgatory]

I agree with 111, I wouldn't think about moving in until after that MC appointment. It will force you guys to take it slow if you give yourself a specific date to "check-in" with your status, ie: at the MC appointment.

Don't you love how dad's always seem to have the right thing to say?? It's great they he is supporting you through this challenging stage

It must be fun to feel like teenagers again- not wanting to get off the phone I wouldn't shy away from little things like that- after all, weren't those types of interactions a part of your original courtship? I think we should put ourselves back into a "newbie's" mindset and do the things that connected us in first place. Was there a song that you two called "your song"? Maybe a restaurant that you always associate with each other (or some other location)? Maybe try to recreate your first date for Valentines- I would even go as far as to try and find a similar outfit as the one you wore so that it really takes the two of you back to when your love was just beginning....

Good lord, I'm a sap. Or a hopeless romantic.... maybe I'm just trying to live vicariously through you since my H wants nothing to do with me...

Really happy to see that you are still being aware of the need to take it slow- if you ever forget that, you could rush back into dangerous territory.