Thanks for the feedback guys, it is greatly appreciated, Do nothing it is!

And I appreciate the smack upside the head Sandi2, I need one of those daily :-). I've read the books and understand the principles but just like so many things applying them effectively is a different story, I must improve in this area.

Good luck to all with your respective sitch's!

me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!