My H does not look at me when we are together. He kind of looks through me or past me but does not look at me.
Hey BK- I experience this ^^^ as well. I've come to expect it but it still bothers me periodically. I try to have minimal expectations but c'mon, can you at least look at me and be present w/ me for a few minutes?
Especially as we are working so hard on listening/validating/focusing on being in the moment with them.
