I realize that my posts have not been very upbeat for quite a while, and that folks on this board are probably sick of hearing from me. For that I apologize.
I think I should probably go dark from everything and attempt to readjust my perspective, concentration and direction.
One last thought: Definition of Humiliation:
Finding out from somebody else that your XW moved in with her new OM within 24 hours of signing the papers. With a drive of 12 hours, she had to leave within minutues of hanging up the phone with me, her lawyer and the judge.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012