I realize that my posts have not been very upbeat for quite a while, and that folks on this board are probably sick of hearing from me. For that I apologize.

I think I should probably go dark from everything and attempt to readjust my perspective, concentration and direction.

One last thought: Definition of Humiliation:

Finding out from somebody else that your XW moved in with her new OM within 24 hours of signing the papers. With a drive of 12 hours, she had to leave within minutues of hanging up the phone with me, her lawyer and the judge.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012