I need the ladies' help on this one.

When a woman says she doesn't love you any more. (note: She didn't say, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you.") Is it a waste of time to wait patiently to see if she has a change of heart?

My wife moved out a month ago, and hasn't waivered any in her current position, of wanting to divorce. She's had a separation agreement drawn up, which I signed. And last weekend she gave me back her wedding rings. I know I'm not supposed to believe anything of what she says and half of what she does--and I know this is where patience comes in, but could this really be over?

Together 10 years, married 8
one daugther who's 3.


"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them."
-Epictetus

M37, W33, D3, T10.5, M8, Bomb-day 9-16-11