Several times a week--many people wouldn't consider that LD (though of course HD & LD are completely relative concepts). The constant connectedness sounds good; did you also do things to contribute to that feeling?
Much of what you express is what he did/didn't do--but since we can only change ourselves, aren't there things you would change for your own satisfaction? Most importantly, then, the first thing you'd change in an ideal relationship is to increase the dialogue?
His complaints sound like fishing for reasons/rewriting the significance of past incidents, or at best as though he's blaming you for things he should have articulated more clearly at the time.
