OK, so my latest idea is to ask all my friends and family to pray for us, with the caveat of not contacting my w at all. My family is halfway across the country, and won't have any direct contact with her anyway, so I don't think it would violate any of the db rules.
At this point, I can't really see the harm in doing that--but once the information gets out there, I couldn't really control what happens to it. But prayer definitely works, so I think this would be more of a positive thing then a negative thing. Feel free to offer any feedback.
"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them." -Epictetus
