lol, mach! Yeah, I think my spidey senses were tingling...
Funny how when we start this journey, we actually have know idea what we'll learn and realize... and accept... until we get there.
And Mnky, I probably stood for a long time because it took me a long time just to get through the being "dumped" part... and then once my head was clear, I was able to be brutally honest with myself...
I still don't know if I'd be prepared to share some of this stuff with my W. I don't want her to be hurt, thinking that I lied to her. Truth is, I did love her. I DO still love her. And if she were willing, I might consider R with her.
But I'm OK if she doesn't ever want that...
I know that my perspective on life is different than my W's. I know that my perspective on commitment is different than my W's. And any R I create in the future, I hope I don't loose my way, again... I would do things different, for sure... but I will NEVER regret the M... I will never regret the kids... It was totally worth it!
And tbh, it has really been over the past 2 months or so, that things kind of really began to click... click... click...
As they say, you will know when you know. But I implore anyone to keep standing, regardless... at least until you are at "that place"... KWIM?
Yeah, I think my spidey senses were tingling... 
