Cadet,

Thanks so much. Sorry for the duplicate thread. I just thought my post didn't show. I will post more often, not only so I can get off moderation, but because I need to vent with liked-minded people.

This has become my safe haven to supplement my spiritual guidance.


Me- 43
H- 45
Married - 3 yrs
Together (off and on) 9 yrs
No kids
Bomb- 9/2011
Separated - 2/1/12
Filed for Divorce - 2/10/12