Yesterday I saw that my stbxw liked a post a friend of ours made on Facebook (one of those images with text photos). I would not help but send a message to my stbxw:
I'm probably going to hate myself for bringing this up, but I noticed you liked a photo post a friend made... "Maybe it's not always about trying to fix what's broken. Maybe it's about starting over and creating something better."
You know my brain... does this mean you consider us over and are referring to someone new? Or does it mean you'd want to throw away the past fog and problems we've had and see if **we** can create something better in time? Or are you still unsure?
I realize it's early to ask, but I would appreciate an honest answer.
I probably should not have sent this - what do you think? I know I am having a very hard time letting go. I still miss and love her dearly, but on the logical side of things, know it was not a happy marriage to be with someone who did not love me, and where I felt tolerated. This of course, with the exception of so many bright moments, which make me think we could have benefitted from a counselor. All so very painful and frustrating.
