Like she came up on your porch and stole your fern ?
Or like she is stealing your hope ?
I read it too, and the first time, I was a little "put off". Then I read it again, and I removed her anger from her perspective, and it really isn't anything different than what you read here.
The changes HAVE to be real. And they have to be because YOU need to make them.
You aren't gonna talk your way out of something you acted your way into....
And that it is gonna take time and consistent actions to earn that trust back...if it can ever come back.
It's not rocket science, the steps are laid out. The daily struggle is to follow the steps...consistently.
If it hurts you more, it could be because a lot of what she says comes really close to home.
She just laid it out in a different perspective than you are used to reading here.