Again it comes down to EXPECTATIONS.

This is pure pursuit and totally against DB, or any relationship advice I have seen.
Odds are about 99% that it will FAIL.

However if you can do it with NO EXPECTATIONS and be OK with failure then go right ahead and do it.

This stuff is COUNTERINTUITIVE.
As my friend Mach says you need to be able to drink coffee with a fork while sitting on the ceiling.
Then it will start to make sense.

Until you get to that point my advice is to listen to what yu are being told and follow it.
Wait 24 to 48 hours before doing anything.
Give yourself time to post here and get advice.

Let us know what you decide.

Me-70, D37,S36