WHG: And Alice goes down the rabbit hole...

[workinghardguy]

Thanks Ten. I'm planning to focus on this is just another step in the process. This is a marathon and while I feel like I've already gone 25 miles the fact is I haven't even hit the first water table.

It won't be the last time she sees me. Heck, on Sunday I'll drop S off. On Tuesday I'll be over there once all the kids are done at my place and is bedtime. And then again on Wed and on Thu. But I need to be positive and happy. I need to embrace this new chapter and live it, not simply put life on hold.

And I do have a lot to be thankful for, even amidst this. In a given week I will,spend more time with my s than my w will and almost as much time with SS and SD as she will. That's not meant to be competitive... Just a demonstration of things. I know lots of guys in similar sitches don't get half of what I am getting.