Rick's response was a little harsh, but correct. I know he didn't say it to sound like a jerk and he is sincerely trying to help you.
I agree, let the day go by. Yes, you can remember that it is a special day but don't do anything to celebrate it. Chances are she wouldn't appreciate the gesture anyway.
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