I also know my W is battling serious depression issues. She doesn't feel good about her self no matter what she does. Many of her co-workers and so called friends have recently D and are unhappy with there own shitty lives. Misery loves company and they are dragging her down. I truly think alot of my W isses started when she meet her father for the very first time in her life 4 years ago. As sad as I am to say it I wish she never would have meet him. He knew he had a daugther and never reached out to her and now all of sudden he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. My W is a awesome person that's why I care so much for her. She was really big into to going to church but now that she has left she has turned her back to GOD. Why is that? I know why she knows in her heart of hearts she is wrong in what she is doing to her family. Was I perfect heck no, but how can someone change themselves when the unhappy person never tells them how unhappy they really are? I do thank her for bring this to my attention cause it has changed me for the better. I'm not sure what it is she is looking for in life cause the best thing for her is right under her nose. I'm not saying I'm the perfect catch but I can assure you one thing no one will give her the love that I have for her. I have saved her life more than once. But I have taken the advice of those here on the board go dark detach, GAL, and be as happy as possible when we interact. If she is too blind to see it her loss and one day she will wake up and say what F was I thinking.
