Hey SF... that's nuts. Not sure about your whole story, but why did he come back after three years gone? What made you think things would be different?

That's for my own curiosity...

But what about you? What made him think that life with you would be different?

Just wondering. I don't expect to be where you are because I really don't see life with my W would be any different and I can't imagine being the H my W appears to want.

But I wonder... what if we did R...? What would prevent it from being more of the same?