Still stuck in limbo land. Trying to get papers graded and a paper written.
So many things going on at once, I went and got a calendar for the fridge. Everyone has their own color ( even made a key on the calendar). I filled in everyone's activities for the month- expect H's since I have no clue because he doesn't share anything.
As the kids have something, they write in on the calendar. I check the calendar to see what's going on, and update my phone calendar. The kids check the calendar before scheduling things, and when new things are mentioned. Great system if you ask me. I mean I have 2 teenagers writing their schedules down, and checking mine before they make plans-- so it has to be a good system if they bought into it.
H?? Well, he still asks if D is going to x or y. Really, I got the calendar so I didn't have to be his personal assistant anymore. He asks if I'm teaching (despite it being in conversation and on the calendar), he asks if I have study group... it's on the calendar, it happens every Thursday- EVERY being the important word...
I am honestly at the end of my rope. He can't remember anything anyone tells him, and when we come up with a solution, he can't even look on the calendar as he is getting a drink from the fridge.
( He also has a phone calendar, but doesn't use it.)
I have a meeting for D's 504 plan in the morning, H has been told, it's on the calendar.... I'm not going to remind him. She has had a 504 for 7 years and he hasn't been to one meeting (Not sure he could even tell you what accommodations she gets). Kinda wondering if he will remember he said he wanted to go.
if he doesn't remember, he'll blame me. wahoo. can't wait for that to happen.
