Sleeper - I do agree that I am fortunate my kids are the age they are. Although it's a different effect for them. My oldest D who is getting married this summer - has made a couple of comments like "what if this ends up like yours..." I hate that for her - but I have always tried to get them to take care of themselves first. Something I never really learned. I don't know how you kept it together at your child's conference. Way overstepping boundaries. You are my hero! Irish
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time