Lol the ugly scale goes from handsome to super handsome. So I am good either way.
I attended divorce care tonite. The young guy came in tears but said nothing. He sat next to me. They showed a tape about healing. He and the girl next to him sobbed the whole time. Heart breaking. I did not stay for the 2nd half but he followed me outside. Tells me that he met with his L today and maybe D on Wednesday. Too bad he is not open to DBing. I really tried but he is very resistant. I think for those who won't "Drop the gun" this will be more difficult. Don't remember who posted that for me here early on. But I get it now.
Stop defending yourself and listen. Look at patterns of behaviors and see what sounds true. When more than one person tells you that there is something about you that irks them, listen. They are on to something.
In 4 weeks I too will be in court. But I hope to deal with this as a strong, confident and dignified man that I know I can be.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
