Forward, slow as she goes

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Dear BeingMe,

You said:

I don't even know what a normal, loving, intimate R is like. I want that, but if I can't have that, then I don't want one at all.

I can relate to this. I was pondering what my H is currently offering me. The chance to live with him in our evidently boring relationship? I am still so darn confused as to how exactly I could have thought things were good for us, when they weren't.

So I guess the question is: What do you want from a relationship?

Aloha,

Wendy