Never thought I'd be here........part 8

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Crimson - Detaching so that you protect yourself emotionally will allow you to be 100% present when you need to be. Detaching which also includes GAL will make you much more attractive because you will be doing things for Crimson and you will be in a much better emotional frame of mind to deal with the evolution of your sitch.

I doubt very much that your W wants to spend every waking moment with you, (at least not now). So, that being the case, what do you think you could be doing during those times when you are not with your W? If you answered GAL, then you win the prize!!

Your W will only feel excluded if you exclude her from things she wants to be included in on.

Do you play racketball? Do you swim? Do you run? Do you bowl? These are all things that you could potentially incorporate into your week and they are healthy alternatives to waiting around for a sign from your W. And they have side benefits; you meet interesting people, you exercise and you reenergize. All these things make for a more attractive Crimson.