I don't know whether there's anyone that can give me advice on this....my husband and i have lived apart for the last six months but after being constanly off then on,then off again, we finally been pretty much on for the last six weeks. my difficulty is this: i have FINALLY been able to control my own emotions enough to stop oushing him all the time, and to le things just happen. but since i've moved in to my house i've spent some time decorating but hadn't bought any furniture (i guess i always hoped it wouldn't be permanent and my heart wasn't really in it). H wans to take things really slow, not tell anyone yet, and that's fine (kind of!). but i'm tired of just having a chair to sit on and a bed, whilst he's in our old house which was fully furnished. He doesn't want me to buy any furniture though 'in case' it's a waste of money. I'm beginning to feel that my life's completely on hold and it's miserable living here. i don't want to be pushing him to let me move back in, but at the same time I don't want to be living like this. I'm pretty sure if I start buying furniture that'll completely push him the opposite way! I don't know if any of this makes sense, it's late here and I'm probably rambling. I just don't know what to do for the best and feel if I do anything either way it could ruin where we are.
