Do not under any circumstances ask for a second chance or another date or a 'couldn't we go to counseling' or anything like that.
You are not helping matters by obsessively pursuing her in your mind.
You show her respect at this time by accepting her decision to file for divorce, by (ONLY if you haven't already) apologizing by hurting her by not being the husband you should have been for her and wishing her the best in her future (but with no expectation of anything, just to apologize and don't do this a second time if you have already done so). If she looks good, let her know so, then, after you are done with your business, be the first to leave and wish her a great day/night.
Then get the focus off her and how you will now live your life.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
