I say do nothing. And, the stepkids? Nothing!

For gosh sake's never give her a book you want her to read!

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4) Write her a short note and include some of the variants from the "What I've learned" post that apply to me.


Are you insane?

You don't have kids of your own. You are one of the few who could really go dark, if you would. Now, that would probably be shock!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!