Just an update on my personal situation. 4 years ago W had an affair 4 years of DBing had no real effect other than a sticking plaster. In December we agreed to separate I wanted to go to stop enabling the PA behaviors but she insisted she be the one to go.
The PA must have a target for his/her behaviors, true enough the first sucker that comes along becomes a target. less than six weeks separated and she has started a physical affair with a man who my son says looks like a woman, and very effeminate? She hardly shopped around. Literally first opportunity.
This will be fun to watch!
If this is MLC how usual is it to have replay behaviors 4 years apart?
