And oh, by the way, its not something you ask or verbalize about to your H (asking him if he believes M to you can be different, that you are not going to hold the A over his head) but you have to show it by your actions....
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go