Retrouvaille question

[angel61]

Flowers, I will be praying for you! Lotus helped me also a lot in encouraging me to push through with our Retrouvaille. It turned our M around.

Mr. Bond, I have seen many posters saying that there should be no OP when going to Retrouvaille, but lately, I think their policy on that has changed. When we went, my H also still was in contact with OW.

What the Rretouvaille coordinator explained was that if there was an OP, the person involved should not contact the OP during the during the time that Retrouvaille was going on, and should have an open heart and mind.

I would imagine that many of the M's there are dealing with infidelity, past orpresent, and honestly, the OP is only a symptom of the M's problems in many cases.

My H also initially agreed to go more because I asked him to. I also did not pressure him or anything, after he initially agreed, but much to my surprise he was the one who brought it up as time drew near. You can look into my threads in MLC and in piecing (yes, we are piecing now and H no longer is in touch with OW, he stopped talking to her 1 month after we finished the weekend, and we also went to almost all the posts!) Just like you, I left it to God, and He did the work.....

Take care and God Bless!