Thank you for the responses. I have decided to go. We have already requested vacation time and paid the deposit. I'm continuing to be upbeat and positive with him. He has only been seeing the OW for about 2 weeks. They have only seen each other in person twice. She has tried to talk him out of going but he told her he wanted to be able to tell the kids he tried everything. I left the room arrangements up to him and he requested a single room which surprised me. I'm sure he didn't tell the ow that part. I am leaving the results up to God. I am sure I will learn something from it whether the marriage is saved or not. I will continue to db because it has helped me so much.
Married 30 Together 34 Me 49 H 51 S 27, S 25, D 22 1st ILYBNILWY Feb. 2005 Renewed vows Aug. 2007 2nd, 3rd etc ILYBNILWY 2008-2011 Separated Sept 2011 Filed Jun 2012 Final Oct 2012
I am leaving the results up to God. I am sure I will learn something from it whether the marriage is saved or not. I will continue to db because it has helped me so much.