Back off the son and embrace the time you have with your youngest d. What healthy choice do you have?
There was a time, I suspect, when none of them wanted to be around you. So take what you can get for now and savor it.
Big picture-there is progress.
"DO" NOTHING about your son for now, (but staying involved in his schoolwork via communication with them).
Stop trying to control the outcome. It will get better IN TIME.
You have to back off...pull way back.
Can you do that? If not, why not?
That is a question you really have to ponder.
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