My father who went though he own crisis while we were kids thinks that with my H and sounds like with yours as well, the heart of the problem is that they feel unworthy.
The feeling of unworthiness is related to the affair and losing money but there is probably something deeper from a childhood trauma.
I wanted to thank you for writing this because I think it really relates to my sitch, too.
I'm curious, what was the outcome with your father?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
