Originally Posted By: sandi2
I meant to add, that I realize it may be frustrating to help her get things for her place


And a quick trip to Goodwill will take care of that when/if she's ready to come home.

Just keep paying attention. Her signals were pretty clear when she wanted to know more about your changes. I think she'll let you know what the next step is. Probably the worst thing you could do is presuppose what the next step.

Someone wrote this is a letter, pretty smart dude:
Like I said, I thought I was being the greatest husband ever. ... Again, I was giving YOU the definition of a "great" husband, when it needs to be the other way around.

Follow his advice. smile


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss