I meant to add, that I realize it may be frustrating to help her get things for her place
And a quick trip to Goodwill will take care of that when/if she's ready to come home.
Just keep paying attention. Her signals were pretty clear when she wanted to know more about your changes. I think she'll let you know what the next step is. Probably the worst thing you could do is presuppose what the next step.
Someone wrote this is a letter, pretty smart dude: Like I said, I thought I was being the greatest husband ever. ... Again, I was giving YOU the definition of a "great" husband, when it needs to be the other way around.
Follow his advice.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss