Listen to your W closely at this stage. She's still behind where you are, quite a ways behind. Don't be the overeager dog and scare the interested kitty off.
Don't push for more than she is ready for or she may worry about not "feeling it."
Be charming, funny, interesting when with her, the best Crimson around. Draw her out and listen to her. Listen for suggestions
It's natural to feel giddy, nervous and a little scared and uncertain at this stage. Your W is probably 1000-fold more scared about the thought of really opening herself back up to you.
If she wants to reconcile with you, she will keep reaching out. Reciprocate at her level. Ideally, she will escalate the connection between you at her comfort level.
I still haven't heard a declaration from her of being back all in, right? Or all in to the idea of working on things? What exactly has she said to you or in MC re: where she stands now?
A book that was helpful for me during piecing was Hold Me Tight. Have you already read 5 Love Languages and Love Dare?
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
