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Just a quick hijack...

Cadet,

Thank you so much for posting those links...

And so quickly. I am always grateful for your help.

Nhmom,

I believe one of the people he wants to teach to fish is me...

I have been around here for what seems like forever...

Cadet has tried repeatedly to teach me and others how to link.

The others get it, I don't. I can sometimes be very techincally challenged smile

Anyway...sorry it took me so long to get time to post this.



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NH - since your H Still connects with you...and there is still intimacy...I think there is still a chance for you two.

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Originally Posted By: cat04
Just a quick hijack...

Cadet,

Thank you so much for posting those links...

And so quickly. I am always grateful for your help.

Nhmom,

I believe one of the people he wants to teach to fish is me...

I have been around here for what seems like forever...

Cadet has tried repeatedly to teach me and others how to link.

The others get it, I don't. I can sometimes be very techincally challenged smile

Anyway...sorry it took me so long to get time to post this.


No worries Cat04, the fish story is from Mach, you know I will always help you out.

Rick remember this stuff is counterintuitive so all is not the way you think it is.
Left is right, Up is down, good might be BAD and bad might be GOOD.

The LBS is the pillar, the stanchion, the lighthouse that the one in crisis may be attracted back to after the storm is over.
During the storm it is not a good idea to be out in a boat.


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Rick remember this stuff is counterintuitive so all is not the way you think it is.
Left is right, Up is down, good might be BAD and bad might be GOOD.

I know you're correct and can remember that for the most part, but when I'm on a downswing all of these insights start to fade.

The LBS is the pillar, the stanchion, the lighthouse that the one in crisis may be attracted back to after the storm is over.
During the storm it is not a good idea to be out in a boat.

I think I have to keep these words of wisdom available whenever I am on the downswing part of this. 25 talks a lot about mantras. I think I need to consider using these mantras more effectively. I have felt myself sliding down into the LBS despair pit for a week now and could not seem to pull out if even with awareness that it was happening. Mantras....

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