WOW! 4fam and Sleeper. You just described my W to a tee! My head was/is spinning trying to catch up with that craziness. 3 months after she got pregnant she dropped the 1st bomb and we/I worked so hard to have that baby. I had to do some pretty humiliating things to see if I was the cause of us not getting pregnant.
I think that she was trying to make up for her past abortion (previous relationship) and would not admit that it affected her as much as it did. Combine that with apparently a previous relationship with power and control problems and an identity crisis and you have the roller coaster dejure. Bon a Petite!
I will need to read this entire thread as it seems pretty good. Maybe it deserves a sticky?
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12