Hi RoRoinMD,

Thanks for your response. I have not read either book yet, but I plan to pick them up sometime this week.

I will create a separate thread because I really need some support from this community in additional to what I am doing for myself spiritually.

Me- 43
H- 45
Married - 3 yrs
Together (off and on) 9 yrs
No kids
Bomb- 9/2011
Separated - 2/1/12
Filed for Divorce - 2/10/12