Think really hard about it, I'll bet there was a point in your relationship when you started to realize something was wrong. Like a time when you were with her and you thought something didn't feel right, or like it should. Like a time that should've been happy and just wasn't. Do you recall anything like that? If so, do you recall any big events prior to that that may have contributed to a change in attitudes for either of you? I'm not asking you all of this to dwell on the past, but I think it would help you potentially understand at least when the respect was lost. The when might help you figure out the why, because your personality was most likely always your personality, it probably just took a particualr event, or several events, to change the dynamic you had with her.
Do you have any specific examples of where you feel she does not show you respect? A particular fight or ongoing issue?
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