My H did the same thing in choosing the ow over his kids for quite a while. I now see glimpses where he choose his kids over her. I believe he pays for that quite dearly when it happens.
Oh well, it's the life he choose when he ran looking for his happiness.
One thing I don't understand is why they resent having to pay us alimony so much. I guess us being good and faithful wives didn't mean much to them.
Hang in there my friend, better days are coming...
