Husband's wants out & one foot out the door...

[BklynMom]

I think if the WAS is still at home your job is to appear as desirable as possible. (Hard to do when you are sick) But when you are well every time he sees you, you should be well groomed and on your way to some fun activity. Also maybe you can get more into cooking while at home or playing an instrument, maybe painting. Just hobbies that H would find attractive.

It would be exhausting but its what you need to do. Make them a fool to want someone else.