you are NOT a failure! the circumstances are sh*tty but you are doing what you can to provide a stable, loving environment for your girls and that takes so much strength and courage!
not having 2 parents in the home s&cks but it wasn't your choice. you are doing what you need to for yourself and your girls and ultimately, H will have to make his own decision. i know it's hard.
you need love and support! i haven't shared my situation w/ a lot of people. only with a select number of friends. one of my lifesaving supports is a married gf (the same one that wrote me that letter). she is so stable and totally gets why i'm so committed to marriage. i thought it would be hard to be around her and her family but it has been so great! i have had a few talks w/ her H, many talks w/ her.. and our kids love to play together. it's been a total win-win.
our situation is nothing to be embarassed about. i get that you don't want to talk to a lot of neighbours etc (i wouldn't really want to either. don't feel like sharing that pain) but hopefully you'll consider opening up to a few more friends?
wish i could come pick you up and head out for a night of awesome GAL!! but since i can not... ((((((( )))))))
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11
