Hi Purg - So fun that you are on the road. I love long road trips.

I think your sitch is too early for your H to make any statement to anyone except "Its over". I think you should ignore that he told your friend he's not coming back. You should discourage people from trying to convince him to come back right now. He is not ready to hear it, he will get more defensive and will fight rather than listen.

In time I think those friends that suggest you both work on it, will be great but right now as evidence by response he can not hear any of it. He is confused and an alien. He does not know what he is saying or doing.

He is sick right now and part of the cure is time and no pressure.

Have fun


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13