Here are some other ideas that lay the foundation for what I'm going to read:
1. Intimacy is not always soothing and often makes us feel insecure. I have to get away from the ideas that conflict is bad and something to be avoided.
2.Marriage prepares us to live and love on life's terms.
I'm feeling more hopeful that our marital problems can be worked thru. He's normalized what I'm going thru, so I don't feel so flawed.
3.Sexuality as the stage on which you play out your life's drama and rewrite your script. Sex therapy in my past focused on technique and sex exclusively. He frames sex therapy as personal development. I've done a lot of work on personal development over the years. I'm more prepared to move the M forward than I've ever been.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
