can't help you with having S still in the home. i guess there's a plus and minus to every situtation.
have you read wenitiki's story? she's in the MLC boards these days. very inspiring. her H still at home while OW in the picture. i really admire how strong she has become.
i hope you get better soon (flu wise). hang in there!
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11